In tech, brash male founders are allowed to overpromise and underdeliver, time and again. Not so much for women. : Ms. Pao is a tech investor and chief executive of Project Include, a diversity, equity and inclusion nonprofit. She is the author of “Reset: My Fight for Inclusion and Lasting Change,” about her lawsuit against a venture capital firm and her experience running the technology company Reddit. Elizabeth Holmes followed the Silicon Valley playbook to a T. She was focused and ambitious.